I would have gone to bed
when I was sick, instead of pretending the earth would go into a
holding pattern if I weren’t there for the day.
I would have burned the
pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked
less and listened more.
I would have invited
friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the
sofa faded.
I would have eaten the
popcorn in the ‘good’ living room, and worried much less about
the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the
time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would never have
insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my
hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the
lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains.
I would have cried and
laughed less while watching television – and more while watching
life.
I would never have
bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn’t show
soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away
nine months of pregnancy, I’d have cherished every moment, and
realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only
chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me
impetuously, I would never have said, “Later. Now go get washed
up for dinner.”
There would have been
more “I love you’s.”. More “I'm sorry’s”. But mostly, given
another shot at life, I would seize every minute ... look at it
and really see it ... live it ... and never give it back.
Stop sweating the small
stuff. Don’t worry about who doesn’t like you, who has more, or
who’s doing what.
Instead, let's cherish
the relationships we have with those who Do Love Us.
Let's think about what
God HAS blessed us with.
And what we are doing
each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally,
as well as spiritually.
Life is too short to
let it pass you by. We only have one shot at this and then it's
gone.
I hope you all have a
blessed day.